LECTURE # 20: INDEPENDENT DECISION-MAKING
By HaRav Yehuda Amital
I. TURNING TO RABBIS REGARDING MATERIAL ISSUES
The Mishna in Avot (5:20) states:
Yehuda ben Teima said: Be strong as a leopard, light as an
eagle, swift as a stag, and mighty as a lion to do the will of your Father in
Heaven.
A Jew is expected to be strong in his belief and in his
adherence to his chosen path. This is all the more important in our generation,
when the surrounding culture is so inimical to the ways of the Torah. A person's
character is measured according to his ability to act with determination,
undeterred by difficulties.
A person is further expected to be capable of deciding issues
on his own. His character is also measured according to his decision-making
ability. There are those who believe that, ideally, a person should turn to a
rabbi for guidance in all matters; they see this as an elevated expression of
fear of Heaven. In my opinion, this is a problematic phenomenon, one that
contradicts what is expected of man. It also runs counter to our prayer, "And
instill within us good counsel before You." Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi,
author of the Tanya writes, (Iggeret ha-Kodesh 22):
My beloved, my brethren and friends: Out of [my] hidden love
[for you, springs] an overt rebuke. Come now and let us debate; remember the
days of old, consider the years of every generation. Has such a thing ever
happened in days past? Where indeed have you found such a custom in
any of the books of the early or latter sages of Israel, that it should be the
custom and established norm to ask for advice in mundane matters, as to what
one ought to do in matters of the physical world? [Such questions
were not asked] even of the greatest of the former sages of Israel, such as the
authors of the Mishna and the Gemara, from whom no
secret was hidden, and for whom all the paths of heaven were clearly
illuminated. Rather, these questions were asked only of actual prophets who used
to live among the Jewish people, such as Shemuel the Seer to whom Shaul went to
inquire of God about the donkeys that his father had lost. For, in fact, all
matters pertaining to man, except for words of Torah and the fear of Heaven, are
apprehended only by prophecy. [As the verse states,] "There is no bread unto the
wise." And as our Sages, of blessed memory, said: "Everything is in the hands of
Heaven except for the fear of Heaven." Likewise, "Seven things are hidden… ; no
man knows how he will earn his living, nor when the Kingdom of David will be
restored…" Note that these [two questions] are likened to one
another…
It is interesting to note that while we know that people sought
out the Ba'al Shem Tov's counsel on all types of matters, Rabbi Schneur Zalman,
disciple of the Maggid of Mezerich (third generation to the Ba'al Shem Tov),
asks: "Where indeed have you found such a custom in any of the books of the
early or latter sages of Israel?"
II. THE IMPORTANCE OF BEING ABLE TO MAKE DECISIONS
The ability to decide issues is important for various reasons.
First of all, when a person is unable to decide for himself, his character
weakens. A person's character is tested in part by his ability to gird himself
with courage and make difficult decisions. The Gemara in Yoma (71a)
states:
"To you, O men, I call" (Mishlei 8:4). Rabbi Berachya
said: This refers to Torah scholars, who are similar to women, but act with
might like men.
Rashi (ad loc.) comments:
"Who are similar to women" – modest and of feeble
strength.
Where, then, does the might of these Torah scholars come to
expression? In the spiritual strength that allows them to make courageous
decisions.
Second, the ability to decide matters is valuable in one's
service of God. The Torah states (Devarim 18:10-13):
There must not be found among you anyone that makes his son or
his daughter to pass through the fire, or that uses divination, a soothsayer, or
an enchanter, or a witch, or a charmer, or a medium, or a wizard, or a
necromancer. For all that do these things are an abomination to the Lord; and
because of these abominations the Lord your God drives them out from before you.
You shall be perfect with the Lord your God.
Rashi (ad loc.) explains:
"You shall be perfect with the Lord your God" – Walk before Him
whole-heartedly, put your hope in Him and do not attempt to investigate the
future, but whatever it may be that comes upon you accept it whole-heartedly,
and then you shall be with Him and become His portion.
There is a value in a person putting his entire trust in God.
Someone who constantly aspires to know with certainty how he should act in
practical matters must understand that there is no guaranteed way of arriving at
the truth. It was once common to go to a prophet with specific questions, as
when Shaul inquired after his asses. Going to one's rebbe is not the same thing
as going to a wizard, but even so, it may testify to a certain deficiency
regarding being "perfect with the Lord your God."
As a rule, a person must not allow himself to be dependent upon
another person, even if that other person is his rebbe. Chassidut itself
fought against this phenomenon. A famous Chassidic story tells of a Chassid who
went to his rebbe with a certain problem. The rebbe told him that in order for
him to resolve the difficulty, the Chassid would have to pay him a large sum as
a pidyon (ransom). A few days later, the Chassid returned and informed
his rebbe that, with great effort, he succeeded to raise half of the desired
sum. The rebbe refused it. The Chassid went back and raised additional money,
but the rebbe refused to agree upon anything less than the amount he had
originally demanded. In the end, the Chassid lost his patience, and declared:
"If this is the case, I believe that God will help me, even without the rebbe's
assistance." The rebbe heard this and said: "Now, indeed, God will help
you." As soon as the Chassid understood that his primary efforts must be
invested in turning directly to God, the objective was reached.
In later generations, Chassidic attitudes changed, and greater
and greater emphasis was placed on the idea that the Chassid is dependent upon
his rebbe even regarding material matters. Moreover, this understanding has
recently spread even beyond Chassidic circles. I assume that they have answers
to the points raised above. In any event, the approach presented here is one
that I received from my teachers: my revered master, the gaon and
tzaddik, Rabbi Chayyim Yehuda Halevi, Hy"d, and from my teachers
in Eretz Israel - the heads of the Hebron yeshiva, Rabbi Y.M. Charlap,
ztz"l, and others.
This dependency is problematic not only for the disciple, but
for the rebbe as well. It is inappropriate for rabbis to voice their opinions in
areas that fall outside of their expertise, e.g., in medical or financial
matters. There are times when expressing opinions in these areas can cause great
damage. Many mundane matters are far removed from a rabbi's education and
training. It goes without saying that this in no way detracts from his
standing.
The role of a rabbi – "Provide yourself with a teacher"
(Avot 1:10) – centers on matters of Halakha and issues pertaining to
Torah, the fear of Heaven and service of God. It also falls upon him to offer
general guidance and counsel. But a rabbi must educate his students in such a
way that they develop the capacity to decide significant issues on their own.
(Translated by David Strauss)